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Learning to Speak a Foreign Language

One day, I was with a friend of mine in Brazil and he asked, “How does it feel to be fluent in Portuguese?” I was a little surprised because I know that I will never will be fluent. I purchased my apartment in Rio de Janeiro in May 2003, and I decided that if I were to enjoy this beautiful city, I would need to learn the language. I was 44 years old at the time, and I think it is fair to say that it is close to impossible for someone of 44 years of age to become fluent. At this point, I would say that I am conversational. I can carry on detailed conversations on almost any subject. But when I talk to Brazilians and probably a lot of Americans too, they know that I am not fluent.

When I began to study, I did two things. First, I purchased the paper every day, and I read the paper. In the beginning it was slow going. Every word that I did not know, I would write down and look it up in the dictionary. Second, I began to watch television. The most popular shows in Brazil are called novelas and I would record them, and watch them once I woke up in the morning. That was extremely difficult but if you persevere, slowly but truly was drilled into my head.

I did this for a little over two years until I met Solange. I was blessed because my wife had an excellent command of the Portuguese. After I met her, my Portuguese improved by leaps and bounds.

Here are some of the lessons of learning a new language.

1. It is hard. There are no short cuts and in the beginning you feel like you will never get there.

2. Don’t be embarrassed. I believe part of the key is to not be embarrassed when you talk incorrectly or do or say something silly because of misunderstanding. It is from these mistakes that improve your skill. I believe that the reason that all children can learn a language and are fluent is because they do not have this fear. Part of learning is overcoming this fear.

3. Lower your expectations. You have to believe that you will never speak as well as all those people around you. But that’s OK, because they will appreciate the trouble you took to learn their language. OK. That is not entirely true. Some people are kind of snobby.

A lot of people look back and wish they had learned a new language. It is a nice accomplishment and I do believe it opens your mind to be able to communicate in a different way with a different set of people.

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  1. I learned basic Brazilian online then started taking classes so I could speak it more fluently. 2 years later and I now do
    Brazilian voice-overs and its the best job iv ever had in my life!

  2. I think your advertisements for PC Matic are corny at best. This caused me to try to research you and after reading your blog I am really impressed!!!!! You have the same ideology, thoughts on society, facebook, productivity and life as I do. God Bless you Rob.

    George

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Plessy Ferguson

I have often wondered when talking to someone on the phone in the United States, you can immediately know whether you are talking to a black person or not. There is a distinct American black accent. It is the same in the south, the north, the west coast and so on. Even though, there are large differences in accents between regions, the American black accent spreads across the entire country.

This is uniquely an American thing. In Brazil, it is not possible to discern the color of someone’s skin by talking to them on the phone. Nor is it possible in the UK. Black people take on the accents and slang of their country. So why is that?

When I discuss this with white people, they say it is the American blacks refusal to integrate into American society. That seems ridiculous to me, because that would mean there was a secret meeting with a secret code among black people. I knew that the reason had to be sociological.

I have come to the realization that the root of the American black accent is the Plessy Ferguson decision. In the late 1800s, a court ruled that black people should be considered to be separate and equal in American society. This one decision could very well be the worst Supreme Court decision in the history of the country. This decision should have been considered unconstitutional but it remained the law of the land until it was essentially overturned by the Civil Rights Acts past in the 1960s. The reason it is unconstitutional is the word SEPARATE. We are the United States and not the SEPARATE states. Later in the 1950s, the national pledge of allegiance was signed into law, with the word INDIVISIBLE in the last line of the allegiance.

My conclusion is the reason that the American black accent exists is because American blacks across the entire country were separated and segregated from the rest of the country. In my view, black people did not talk to white people as much as they talked to each other. The same way that people from Boston do not talk frequently with people from Tennessee. For me, the American black accent is a symbol of the injustice of separating the black population from the rest of American society. There is also the hypocrisy of American society that prizes individualism, equality and democracy.

Of course, the ramifications of Plessy Ferguson go far beyond a distinct accent among black people. It is the roots of the deep seated racism in our country. Racism will always exist, but in the United States it is more pronounced and I believe we can point our finger at Plessy Ferguson. To be clear, since the Civil Rights Act, the lives of minorities and blacks in particular are substantially better. Each decade, racism declines, and equality increases. And of course, the American black accent becomes less pronounced.

I have lived in Myrtle Beach SC since leaving Gateway in 1999. Last year, during Memorial Day, numerous black people were shot and killed. This incident has created a local firestorm and the City of Myrtle Beach, the State of South Carolina and the surrounding counties have banded together to create a response to last year’s shootings. One Myrtle Beach employee commented to me, “We are going to send them a message that they are no longer welcome here.” For this reason, I have decided that I will leave Myrtle Beach for Memorial Day weekend. I feel their is trouble in the air. I do not condone the unruly behavior of tourists during Memorial Day Weekend, nor do I approve of the police state that this wonderful city will become at the end of this month. Many Myrtle Beach residence leave the area during this weekend, and some feel that our departure is racism. This is not true. I am not a racist, but this is a fight that I simply want no part of.

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The United States of Money

It is Christmas time and undoubtedly we will hear about the War on Christmas. This makes me sad, because the reality is that the war on Christmas was lost a long time ago to money and capitalism. Rather than celebrate the birth of the Savior, the meaning of Christmas has become consumer consumption, Santa Claus, trees, reindeer and snowmen. The meaning of the holiday has been lost.

But the sad fact is that Christmas is just one of the many casualties of how money dominates and pollutes all sectors of American life. To be honest, it wasn’t always this bad, but as time goes on, each year gets worse and worse.

Sports in general and college sports in particular are polluted by money. It is indeed a sad fact that the dean of the university makes about 1/4th of what the coach of the football team makes. On the professional level, the dirty secret is that the most successful and hence highest paid athletes are doing drugs to ply their trade. Alex Rodriguez and Lance Armstrong are just the tip of the iceberg.

The American health care system exists to make money for the large pharmaceuticals and insurance companies. All other pieces of the health care system such as doctors, hospitals and so on, only exist to serve these masters. Lost in the entire equation is the health of the patient, and the only goal is for the doctor to sell more pharmaceuticals and to assuage any concerns about side effects of these bizarre drugs.

When we look at the Iraqi war, one must ask the question. Who has benefited? Certainly not the Iraqi people. Not the average American. And certainly not our soldiers that have come home dead, mangled or emotionally traumatized. There appears to be one and only one constituent that has won and that is the American military industry complex headed up by publicly traded companies such as Haliburton and Black Rock. These wars are not about terrorism or American security but padding the bottom line of these corporations. The military industry complex tries to hide behind the flag and patriotism to justify their activities but they are really nothing more than high priced mercenaries.

The incredible merger mania hitting corporate America is driven by money. The result of these mergers is to 1) increase consumer prices in a monopolistic way and 2) reduce jobs by laying off workers. None of these benefit the average American, but our SEC is so in the pocket of Wall Street that they turn a blind eye to the very people that are supposed to server and whose tax dollars pay their salaries.

Our government is now run by money and the companies and people that control the money. Both the Republican and Democratic parties are controlled by money. The president and all members of the Senate and the House of Representatives spend all their time raising money to get reelected in the next election cycle. Lost are the needs of the citizens that they supposedly are there to represent. Of course, once they are reelected they only serve their masters that donated to their campaign coffers. The entire election process is a charade to make us feel like we have a democracy when in reality we have an oligarchy that ignores the needs of the voters in favor of the rich moneyed interest.

Our entire food system is now contaminated by money. Have you ever wondered why you can only purchase drinks in almost any restaurant that contain high glucose corn syrup? Did you know that Monsanto now has a patent on soy bean seeds and suing farmers that violate its patent?

The problem with the United States is that it is no longer united. In fact, the money is so strong in both the Republican and Democrat party that we allow these artificial wedge issues to divide us. I believe that the fact that money runs the country and is ruining it will be the one ultimate issue that will unite us all against ALL the special interest that pollute our lives and our government.

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  1. Mr.Cheng
    Love your blog, your story and your product after years of watching how government and insurance ruined healthcare I took matters into my own hands and started a movement to eliminate the middleman and connect independent providers to hospitals and clinics. Lower prices and more access. Not a big success (yet) but one answer. We should all strive to solve problems of big government and business out of control.

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