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Gay and Lesbian Parade

On Sunday, August 9th, 2011, we went to the gay parade here in Rio de Janeiro. In the last few years, the mayor of Rio de Janeiro has made a concerted effort to attract gays and lesbians to Rio de Janeiro. He actually has gone on record as stating that the wants Rio de Janeiro to be the most gay friendly city in the whole world. They want to attracts gays and lesbians throughout Brazil and the rest of the world as well. In Ipanema, they actually have a beach that is primarily for people of alternate life styles.

This year was truly spectacular. The estimate that over 1.5 million people participated in this year’s parade. That is a lot of people. We were so lucky. We arrived about a half hour before the parade began, and there was a small platform that was built by the city. No one was on the platform, and we were the first on the platform. It is great because we had a great view and more importantly as the crowd filled up, we got pushed and shoved a lot less than the others. It was a cloudy day but even with my point and shoot camera, I was able to get some decent photos.

The city did an awesome job of preparation. There were tons of portopotties and there was rarely a long wait for the facilities despite the fact that there was a lot of people drinking heavily. By the end of the show, the place was a mess, but immediately hundreds of men and dozens of street cleaning machines trailed the parade. In a short time, the streets were pristine again.

Having lived in both Rio de Janeiro and the United States, it is safe to say that the two locations are the polar opposite on the issues of gay and lesbian people. In Rio, it is encouraged and in the United States it is thought to be an untreatable disease such as cancer. As I watched millions of these peoples marching proudly and happily, I realized that it is not possible for society to restrict the desires and passions of these people. I live in Rio de Janeiro, and the impact on my family of these people is NADA – ZERO. Maybe some

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Lagoa Park Photos

Having lived in both Rio de Janeiro and the United States, it is safe to say that the two locations are the polar opposite on the issues of gay and lesbian people. In Rio, it is encouraged and in the United States it is thought to be an untreatable disease such as cancer. As I watched millions of these peoples marching proudly and happily, I realized that it is not possible for society to restrict the desires and passions of these people. I live in Rio de Janeiro, and the impact on my family of these people is NADA – ZERO. Maybe some Americans should come down here to analyse the impact on families.

This week is the first day of a very unusual vacation for me. Historically, I have always travelled somewhere for my vacations. That’s for more than 30 years, but this time, I have decided to stay at home here in Rio de Janeiro, which is really one of the most beautiful places on earth.

Today was a beautiful day here in Rio. It is getting a little hotter since October is the first month of spring, and there was not a cloud in the sky. We live on a very large lake that is called Lagoa. The lake is exactly 7500 meters around (4.7 miles), and is surrounded by the famous beaches of Leblon, Ipanema, and Copacabana. There is also a small but very popular park about 1/2 mile from our apartment. I run by it every day.

Since it was so sunny, I took the kids to the park. A sunny day is absolutely the best time to take photos. You have much more options with a lot of light than not enough. So I took out my camera and put it in manual mode and started shooting the kids playing around. After looking at the photos, it gives a nice flavour how nice a view the park has.

I am still amazed at the quality of photos that I can take with my cheap little Panasonic camera. I plan to buy another high end camera sometime next year but I want to learn more about my current camera first. Most of the photos are taken with a shutter speed of 1/1300th of a second and the ISO ranged from 100 to 300. I was able to do that because it was such a nice sunny day! I could never have pulled off these photos on a cloudy day with my camera.

I am also trying to use the Rule of 3’s which I learned from my photography class but also numerous of my photographically inclined friends told about. It is essentially to NOT put your subjects in the centre of the picture. This gives the photo more context about what the subject is doing, or what they are seeing.

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From the Eyes of a Four Year Old

The last time I was in the United States, I decided to buy Teddy a cheap camera at Best Buy. It was certainly a gamble because the odds were either that he would love the camera or it would be broken in the first 30 minutes of use. After 2.5 months, I am happy to say that the camera is function well. We bought Teddy the cheapest camera we could find which was a Fuji that cost about $100.

About a week ago, I dumped all of the photos from his camera to my computer. I made two discoveries. Camera technology is such that even a 4 year old can take pretty decent photos. Also, photos are a lot different and more interesting from the point of view of a 4 year old. It is also a pretty accurate slice of life of what our lives are like in Rio de Janeiro. Note: neither Solange nor I told him which photos to take. These were all from his little 4 year old point of view.

Here are some notes to help understand the photos:

  1. * When we returned from the China and the US, Solange’s mother, Maria, and sister, Sandra were visiting us.
  2. * My good friend, Mike Brotherton, came down to Rio for his bachelor party shortly after our return.
  3. * Our maid, Cida, is very prominent in Teddy and Jesse’s lives and also in the photos.
  4. * Teddy loves playing with his jig saw puzzles.
  5. * Teddy’s favorite subject is his little brother, Jesse.

Solange and I have just finished a photography class, and I am amazed at how many of the basics elements of photography that I struggle with and Teddy seems to get right. Maybe it’s luck, or maybe kids have a better natural sense for photography.

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  1. That is impressive! I’m not sure I even realized he was taking photos of me, either.

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Remembering 9/11

It is close to 10 years since the horrible terrorist attacks on the United States. At the 10 year anniversary, many politicians and mass media will try to drum up patriotism and unity by forcing our nation to remember the reality of these brutal attacks. All of this will make me quite sad, because in my view, we have not learned the right lessons from this tragic event. Here are my views.

Box Cutters

As we all know 19 men boarded 4 different planes in Boston, MA, and then successfully hijacked all 4 planes with nothing more than box cutters. Basically way back in 2001, it was possible for 4 guys to hijack a plane with box cutters. The worst part was the plane that made it all the way to the Pentagon, which is somewhere around a 2 hour flight. The 4 hijackers were able to subdue the entire crew and all the passengers on the plane for more than 2 hours with the threat of paper cuts. The only bright spot (if you can call it that) was the plane that crashed somewhere in the Pennsylvania country side. The passengers were able to over take the plane so that it was not able to carry out the last part of its mission. Little attention or tribute is paid to the flight that crashed in Pennsylvania, but in my view, these are the true heroes of 9/11. They stood up to the box cutters.

The only true hope was for the crew of the planes to unite with the passengers, and overwhelm through sheer force the hijackers. I honestly believe that the Pentagon disaster could have been averted if everyone united. After all, we are the United States.

TSA

But instead of learning the true lesson, which is that we will unite against terrorism, our government under George W Bush decided an entirely different tact. They decided that Americans were not following enough rules. If all Americans follow enough rules then somehow we will be safer. If we take off our shoes at the airport, we are safer. If we throw away a 12 oz bottle of saline solution, we are safer. And if we turn off our iPod, we are safer. This is the wrong message to send to Americans. When faced with a threat such as the 9/11 terrorists, we as Americans need to unite and use our survival instincts and we will survive.

It gets worse, since unemployment in 2001 was rather low. So Bush had to quickly cobble together this new TSA rule-enforcing monster behemoth. I think it is safe to say that the TSA recruits at the time, were not representive of the American work force as a whole. They were the ones that could be hired quickly. That is the people that were unemployed during an economic boom. Or worse yet, working at TSA was a step up on their career ladder.

The reality is that TSA is a symbol of many things wrong in America and our government. TSA is probably the #1 way that we interface with our federal government, and many Americans feel that we can do much better. I call TSA a placebo. By that I mean, that in reality, TSA does nothing to improve our security, but in some weird way, it makes us feel better. Well in aggregate. Speaking for myself, TSA does not make me feel good about our security one bit.

Iraq

Worse yet, somehow Bush’s brain had a major malfunction, and he decided that somehow if we attacked Iraq, we Americans would be safer. Somehow he got all of Congress to go along with this absurd idea. Thousands of American lives and trillions of dollars later, we all know that Iraq had nothing to do with our safety. We can speculate about Bush’s motives, but we all can agree is that he sold the war based on America’s fear. Big government works best when the people are fearful. But this is not the America that I love. We are the greatest nation on earth. We are the leaders of the free world. We have nothing to be afraid of other than ourselves. As our fear consumed us, the Iraq war became our horrible reality.

Hole in the Ground

Perhaps the largest embarrassment of 9/11 is the monster hole at Ground Zero. It took less than a year for the Pentagon to be rebuilt, but after 10 years, Ground Zero is still a hole in the ground. We are talking 10 years! A full decade, and we have not made any progress whatsoever. From what I understand, there are disputing interests on how to proceed with rebuilding Ground Zero. We are unable to put aside our individual interests for the good of the nation.

Racism

Because it took so long for us to nail Osama bin Laden, America has had ample time to foment a new type of hatred toward Muslims. Some of our most popular news hosts claim that Muslims attacked America on 9/11. There is no doubt in my mind, or any one else’s, that there is a new racism in America towards Muslims. It came to a boiling point related to an innocuous Mosque being build near Ground Zero. The country went into a media induced hysteria fanning the flames of racism. It was horrible to watch, and it is certainly not the America we all can be proud of.

I often think of Pearl Harbor where America was brutally attacked by Japan. Far more lives were lost and the attacks were more brutal. Yet today, we harbor no ill will toward Japan. In fact it is the opposite. Japan is one of our largest trading partners, and there are many Japanese that live near the Pearl Harbor Memorial site. Somehow we averted the racism bullet in Pearl Harbor, but with 9/11, we bit the bullet big time.

If you ask any Muslim whether America’s attitude toward Muslims has changed, it is more than obvious. I would like to think that America is better than this, but maybe we are not.

Obama

I am sure that Obama will honor the thousands of victims of 9/11 and all of their loved ones that survive them. I am sure that Obama will remind us that he is an American too and he will try to unite us because of the common pain we feel. But there is much more to do. America has lost its way since 9/11. We are not the same America and many of the more base elements are prevailing. We are capable of much much more and my expectations are very low that Obama will try to plot a new and better direction for the country.

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Ativa-Idade

One of the best things that we did for our kids here in Rio de Janeiro was to put them in a day care. We searched for the best and we finally found a place called Ativa-Idade, which means Active Age. Another huge benefit is that it is only about 1/2 a mile from our apartment so it is a quick and simple exercise to drop them off and pick them up.

Since going to the school, they get along better with each other and they talk a lot more. Although it is preschool, we get detailed reports on the kids progress. Or the best they can estimate given their age.

They have also made a deal with a professional photography firm that takes tons of photos of the kids events and they make them available on the web site for the parents and the kids. Here are bunch of photos from that web site. There are three events. Mother Day, a day in the park, and then something called Festa Julina. It happens every July and they try and dress the kids to look like little adults. Not sure why but that explains a lot of the photos. Check them out.

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