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One Year Ago in São Paulo

I’ve answered the question and told the story so many times. What happened in São Paulo? I finally broke down and decided to write a photo blog of perhaps one of the strangest adventures of my life. It all started with my bachelor party, which in Portuguese, translates to Goodbye to Singleness. After 46 years of being single, I sure went out with a bang. I was really touched by all the people that visited me in the hospital.

It is certainly a story I've had tell many times - How I Ended Up In A Hospital in São Paulo. So here goes.

I was to be married to Solange in August 2006, and so I setup my bachelor party in São Paulo with a few friends in July 2006. The partners in crime were Key (Kyung Sun), Austin Young, Augusto, and Thomas, my doctor friend from Las Vegas.

I took a long run around Lagoa the night before because I knew that I would not be getting much exercise during my 3 day bachelor party. The next day, Solange was scheduled to go travel to her mother's place in Goânia, but she had some problems with her plane reservations. Long story short, I spent most of the following morning, running around Rio straightening her plane reservations. I barely had time to catch my flight to São Paulo.

When I finally got to São Paulo, I ran to a final conference call, and then we were off the races going to many of the favorite night spots in São Paulo. Note: by this time, I had not eaten for more than 24 hours. I was wired, and I decided to drink water.

It all hit at once, and I went into convulsions. My ailment is called hyponatremia. Since I had a doctor with me, they took me to the hospital, and treated me for a lack of sodium in my system. My friends went home, and thought I would be fine.

The next day they came to find me in a far worse situation. I was in a coma. Two days later , when I finally snapped out of it, I had a broken arm, amnesia, pneumonia, and I could not talk. Worse yet, no one knew what had happened. There was nothing in the hospital records nothing. Still to this day, I still don't know what happened.

My friends freaked and took me to another much more expensive hospital. It is there where they gave me two blood transfusions, and they mended my arm with five screws and two plates. Then my friends finally called Solange who had become a non stop crying machine.

My brother and my mother came down to see me in São Paulo. Then my friend William Wang came down on business and also visited me at the hospital. He is the one that snapped this photo.

All's well that ends well. I went back briefly to the US and soon returned to Brazil to marry Solange. She then became pregnant, and as of this writing, we are very happily married.

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Brazil Is Heaven (Video)


I made this video shortly after I first visited Rio de Janeiro in May 2002. In every way, I felt that I found the perfect place for me. From the beaches, to the climate, to the food, the people, the scenery, and the women. This video was made in one of Brazil’s primary tourist attractions called Pão de Açúcar, which translates to Sugar Loaf. I then laid down Aaron Neville’s “Don’t Take Away My Heaven”.

Of course, the rest is history. I bought a condominium, got married to a wonderful Brazilian, and now we have a beautiful baby boy. Wow. Don’t Take Away My Heaven.

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Having My Baby! (Video)


I made this video in celebration of Solange being pregnant. In Brazil (unlike the United States), sonograms are the standard of care. They take multiple photos of the fetus and place it all in a nice folder along with all the crucial measurements of the fetus. More importantly, you have an option to get a DVD of the sonogram. The entire procedure costs about $10, and the DVD costs another $10.

I then ripped the DVD and put it into Windows Movie Maker along with scans from her prior sonograms. Then put it to Paul Anka’s Having My Baby. I think it turned out great!

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  1. Congratulations on beautiful wife and exceptional baby! I got this site along with your PCPitstop Blog on Gateway’s demise and infamous CEO’s. I have to say you were right on and it is making it’s way through Gateway employee’s at record speed! I still miss you and the old “Gateway’ which has been gone along time. Take care of your beautiful family!

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Can You Hear Him Knocking?

I wrote this song back in the mid 80’s. I can remember it like yesterday. My ex girlfriend Karol broke up with me for the second time. She broke up the first time, and it really did not bother me much. So we got together and this time, she made sure that it would hurt. It was bad. I could not sleep, and the pain was as bad as any physical pain that I had experienced.

I started going to Hilltop Baptist Church. Not sure why, just searching. Because of this, I started reading the Bible. I had an old Bible that I had received from some weird zealot while at Cornell close to 10 years earlier. There were many sleepless nights, and I just read the Bible. One night while reading the Bible, the pain disappeared! And then, I slept the night through. It was amazing. I felt like I had been washed.

Then this song popped in my head. I can’t explain how it happened, it just did. I’ve also asked my friend Tom to rerecord it for a more professional sound.

Hope you like it.

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Sometimes when I'm feeling badly
C          G     D
Sure could use a friend
D
When I'm singing sadly
C      G        D
Know I can't pretend


       C           G
In the blink of an eye
G           D
He seems me there
C          G
Deep in my heart
G         D
He knew I cared
G                         D
Broken hearted I couldn't defend
C                G         D
Can you hear Him knocking again?
C                G         D
Can you hear Him knocking again?


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I woke up it as still last night
C             G       D
Time to cry myself to sleep
D
I read the Word it just was right
C             G      D
Treasure I'll always keep



       C           G
In the blink of an eye
G           D
He seems me there
C          G
Deep in my heart
G         D
He knew I cared
G                         D
Broken hearted I couldn't defend
C                G         D
Can you hear Him knocking again?
C                G         D
Can you hear Him knocking again?


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Now when I'm feeling lonely
C              G         D
Get down on my knees and pray
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To the one and only
C        G     D
Savior I got today



       C           G
In the blink of an eye
G           D
He seems me there
C          G
Deep in my heart
G         D
He knew I cared
G                         D
Broken hearted I couldn't defend
C                G         D
Can you hear Him knocking again?
C                G         D
Can you hear Him knocking again?

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The Chen Fellowship

My grandparents created the Chen Fellowship in order to help Chinese students study as USC into perpetuity. After my grandfather passed away in 1991, my grandmother has personally been managing the Chen Fellowship herself. Recently when looking through my things, I found this letter sent by my grandmother while I was working in South Dakota at Gateway. At the time she wrote this letter, she was 93 years old. It is amazing how lucid and clear she was at the age.

April 21, 1996

Dear Robert,

I am pleased in your busy schedule, you were able to visit Los Angeles for two days. I am also happy you could join us for your Father’s 68th birthday party.

Your mother asked Jimmy Li to buy 200 shares of Gateway stock for me. This gives me the pleasure of reading your annual report. It is wonderful that Gateway has grown so rapidly in 10 years period. You, as one of the vice presidents, has contributed toward its success and prosperity. Congratulations.

Once you told me that Gateway is paying you well for your work. Your mother often said “Money does not mean a thing to Robert.” I am glad that you are doing well at your young age. With all the money that you have, I would interested to to help me build up the Chen Fellowship at USC? In the past, you had contributed $500 each year. Here after I hope you can contribute more. Of course, this contribution is income tax deductible. If you do not want to do more, it will not hurt our relationship at all.

You know last July 14th, I have paid the balance of a million dollars toward the Chen Fellowship. The original fund was only about $440,000, which produces only $22,000 in interest last year. We had to pay the graduate school $25,000. Dr. Franklin made up the balance for me. This year the graduate school asks us to pay $25,847. Dr. Franklin is going to pay $25,847 in August for the recipient of the Chen Fellowship for 1996. I have to pay the amount to the man who got the Chen Fellowship in 1995. Since 1995, I have decided to give two years support here after.

I have no trouble to pay that amount. The money I gave to USC in 1994-1995 was in “Life Trust”. USC is paying me 11 percent annually. So I have an income over $50,000 from USC every year. I give half ??? for a second year fellowship, and I still have a little over $25,000 to spend. I am considering to give $100,000 in the form of a life trust. As long as Dr. Franklin and I are still alive, we have no trouble to continue the Fellowship. I want the project to continue even after Dr. Franklin and I both go. So we need some surplus. Aside from financial support for the future, I want you to contact USC graduate school each year to see whether the project is carrying out properly. (After I go)

Thanks to Grandpa’s talent and ability to make a good living for the family, I am financially very comfortable. I have allotted $600,000 as your Mother’s inheritance from her father, tax free. There will be another $600,000 tax free inheritance from me. So your parents are going to financially well off. I will also ask them to look after the Chen Fellowship after I go.

My type writer broke down, so gave them away. Sorry you have to read a hand written letter.

Mr. Yang the artist is still here. His son is getting married on July 13th. I would appreciate if you can take a picture of that big Eagle, so I can show it to him.

Love,

Grandma

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