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Can You Hear Him Knocking?

I wrote this song back in the mid 80’s. I can remember it like yesterday. My ex girlfriend Karol broke up with me for the second time. She broke up the first time, and it really did not bother me much. So we got together and this time, she made sure that it would hurt. It was bad. I could not sleep, and the pain was as bad as any physical pain that I had experienced.

I started going to Hilltop Baptist Church. Not sure why, just searching. Because of this, I started reading the Bible. I had an old Bible that I had received from some weird zealot while at Cornell close to 10 years earlier. There were many sleepless nights, and I just read the Bible. One night while reading the Bible, the pain disappeared! And then, I slept the night through. It was amazing. I felt like I had been washed.

Then this song popped in my head. I can’t explain how it happened, it just did. I’ve also asked my friend Tom to rerecord it for a more professional sound.

Hope you like it.

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Sometimes when I'm feeling badly
C          G     D
Sure could use a friend
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When I'm singing sadly
C      G        D
Know I can't pretend


       C           G
In the blink of an eye
G           D
He seems me there
C          G
Deep in my heart
G         D
He knew I cared
G                         D
Broken hearted I couldn't defend
C                G         D
Can you hear Him knocking again?
C                G         D
Can you hear Him knocking again?


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I woke up it as still last night
C             G       D
Time to cry myself to sleep
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I read the Word it just was right
C             G      D
Treasure I'll always keep



       C           G
In the blink of an eye
G           D
He seems me there
C          G
Deep in my heart
G         D
He knew I cared
G                         D
Broken hearted I couldn't defend
C                G         D
Can you hear Him knocking again?
C                G         D
Can you hear Him knocking again?


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Now when I'm feeling lonely
C              G         D
Get down on my knees and pray
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To the one and only
C        G     D
Savior I got today



       C           G
In the blink of an eye
G           D
He seems me there
C          G
Deep in my heart
G         D
He knew I cared
G                         D
Broken hearted I couldn't defend
C                G         D
Can you hear Him knocking again?
C                G         D
Can you hear Him knocking again?

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The Chen Fellowship

My grandparents created the Chen Fellowship in order to help Chinese students study as USC into perpetuity. After my grandfather passed away in 1991, my grandmother has personally been managing the Chen Fellowship herself. Recently when looking through my things, I found this letter sent by my grandmother while I was working in South Dakota at Gateway. At the time she wrote this letter, she was 93 years old. It is amazing how lucid and clear she was at the age.

April 21, 1996

Dear Robert,

I am pleased in your busy schedule, you were able to visit Los Angeles for two days. I am also happy you could join us for your Father’s 68th birthday party.

Your mother asked Jimmy Li to buy 200 shares of Gateway stock for me. This gives me the pleasure of reading your annual report. It is wonderful that Gateway has grown so rapidly in 10 years period. You, as one of the vice presidents, has contributed toward its success and prosperity. Congratulations.

Once you told me that Gateway is paying you well for your work. Your mother often said “Money does not mean a thing to Robert.” I am glad that you are doing well at your young age. With all the money that you have, I would interested to to help me build up the Chen Fellowship at USC? In the past, you had contributed $500 each year. Here after I hope you can contribute more. Of course, this contribution is income tax deductible. If you do not want to do more, it will not hurt our relationship at all.

You know last July 14th, I have paid the balance of a million dollars toward the Chen Fellowship. The original fund was only about $440,000, which produces only $22,000 in interest last year. We had to pay the graduate school $25,000. Dr. Franklin made up the balance for me. This year the graduate school asks us to pay $25,847. Dr. Franklin is going to pay $25,847 in August for the recipient of the Chen Fellowship for 1996. I have to pay the amount to the man who got the Chen Fellowship in 1995. Since 1995, I have decided to give two years support here after.

I have no trouble to pay that amount. The money I gave to USC in 1994-1995 was in “Life Trust”. USC is paying me 11 percent annually. So I have an income over $50,000 from USC every year. I give half ??? for a second year fellowship, and I still have a little over $25,000 to spend. I am considering to give $100,000 in the form of a life trust. As long as Dr. Franklin and I are still alive, we have no trouble to continue the Fellowship. I want the project to continue even after Dr. Franklin and I both go. So we need some surplus. Aside from financial support for the future, I want you to contact USC graduate school each year to see whether the project is carrying out properly. (After I go)

Thanks to Grandpa’s talent and ability to make a good living for the family, I am financially very comfortable. I have allotted $600,000 as your Mother’s inheritance from her father, tax free. There will be another $600,000 tax free inheritance from me. So your parents are going to financially well off. I will also ask them to look after the Chen Fellowship after I go.

My type writer broke down, so gave them away. Sorry you have to read a hand written letter.

Mr. Yang the artist is still here. His son is getting married on July 13th. I would appreciate if you can take a picture of that big Eagle, so I can show it to him.

Love,

Grandma

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The Women’s Wellness Clinic and How I Wound Up in Jail
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As much as we had already been through with the Woman’s Wellness Clinic, the story just kept getting weirder. Solange had one more visit with the Woman’s Wellness Clinic for her post natal examination. The date was set shortly after we left the hospital. A week before the scheduled date, we received a phone call to delay the examination for one week. Then, another call to cancel the examination all together. I asked to reschedule and they informed me that someone else would be calling to reschedule. A couple of weeks go by, and no one called, and Solange was getting a little upset.

I took matters in my own hands, and called the clinic. The clinic had two offices. I called the first office, and the line was disconnected. The second office had a message that they were out to lunch. That was strange, because it was 4 pm. I called the next day, many times, and same result. They were out to lunch.

At this point, I was a little miffed with them. This clinic had been paid in full. Blue Cross Blue Shield informed me that they paid over $2000 for the birth of our baby BEFORE the baby was born. Additionally, I paid close to $600 before the first examination was performed. I paid numerous copays for office visits which I later learned should have never been charged. And now, I can’t even schedule an appointment for Solange’s last postpartum exam.

I wasn’t sure what to do, so I decided to bring Solange to my doctor. She said the best person to perform the post natal would be the on-call obgyn that performed the birth at the hospital – Dr. Forbes. More weirdness. My doctor was unable to contact Dr. Forbes, and I tried also. I left a message and after a week, he still had not called back. Some more research showed that before working at the hospital, Dr. Forbes worked where? At the Women’s Wellness Clinic, of course.

So my doctor’s office decided to schedule us with a different OBGYN, but we needed to get Solange’s records from Women’s Wellness Clinic. They also informed me that there wasn’t much time, because the clinic was about to close its doors for good in four days. After hanging up the phone, I jumped in the car, and drove straight there. The office was closed at 2pm in the afternoon. I go back, and my doctor’s office explained that it was best to try and get them in the morning. So the next day, I drove there again, and they were indeed open. Unfortunately, they would not give me Solange’s records because Solange wasn’t present. I was miffed but I relented. If we can just get the records, then we can just put these shady doctors behind us.

The next day (one day before the clinic closes), Solange, Teddy, and I go to the clinic. I was very happy to find that the clinic was still open and we entered. We talk to the doctor, and she refused to give us a copy of the records. These “doctors” did not show up for the birth, did not do the postpartum, did not do the proper tests, were paid in full, and padded my bill. I felt the least they could do was give us a copy of Solange’s medical records. Unfortunately, the doctor disagreed. Plus, there was only one day left until the office closed.

I was carrying Teddy, and I slowly gave Teddy to Solange, and as quickly as I could, I tried to grab the records from her hand. Damn! It was a complete whiff. She’s a doctor with quick reflexes. She was holding the documents in air almost taunting me with them. But I did nothing more. She ran to her office, threw the documents in her office, locked the door, and ran out of the clinic.

We were both pretty shaken, but we both left the clinic, and we saw over the balcony that the doctor and her assistant were downstairs calling the police. “Good idea!”, I thought. The police would come, and I would explain everything, and they would help me get copies of my wife’s documents. In fact, when the police had arrived, I was actually on the line with 911 myself.

But of course, I was wrong. Three police cars come screaming to the clinic, lights blinking, and sirens blazing. 6 policemen came running in. At least, they did not have their guns drawn. They approached and hand cuffed me. So much for my little fantasy. They talked to the building security and the doctor and then took me away.

I spent 26 hours in the county jail, and I certainly have learned a lot about life and our justice system. 24 hours into my visit, I talked to the arraignment judge. I finally found someone who would listen. I was out in less than an hour without bail. On September 12, I must defend myself on the charges of trespassing, disorderly conduct, and assault and battery. I have also learned that the Woman’s Wellness Clinic has permanently closed their doors, probably right at the time I was leaving the prison.

One thought on “The Women’s Wellness Clinic and How I Wound Up in Jail

  1. Can relate…I used that practice back in 2004…everything seemed fine until delivery. Dr. Niles abandoned me during labor…hours later my blood presure dropped and the baby’s heart rate dropped. Dr. Niles flies through my door while people are prepping me for surgury, never explained anything except that she couln’t leave me alone for two mins. and now she has to opperate. As she pulled my daughter from me, she said, “I just saved this baby from the hands of death”!!!I’ve told everyone I could that Conway isn’t fit to deliver puppies. Now almost six years later I’m expecting my second baby and I try to look up the practice to get my records, and no one has a clue how or where I can get them. The hospital has the labor and delivery records, and all they would tell me is the she’s not a participating physician anymore. A person like that should never work in medicine again!!!+

  2. I’m truly sorry for that ordeal. They are your records so I don’t understand why you would not be able to have a copy of them. I have no love of the medical community here in the US. There is, however, no excuse for being out maneuvered my an MD. Always faint with the left, then grab with the right.

    Give my best to Teddy and Solange.

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Importing CSV’s using PHPmyAdmin

When working on the photo part of my web site, which is a many-to-many database layout, I recently ran into the following frustration. I have found that it is much easier to manipulate my tables in Excel, and then uploading the resulting CSV back into MySQL. But I kept getting a wide variety of errors stating that I had an error.

invalid field count beginning in line XXXX.

Here is a link to one of many people having the same problem.

http://www.phpbuilder.com/board/showthread.php?t=10328310

There are actually two bugs in Excel that are causing invalid field counts. Check out this link:

http://support.microsoft.com/kb/77295/en-us#appliesto

The issue arises when the last column has blank fields in it. That was certainly the case with me. The trick is to place at least one character in each row of the last field. I decided to add   to each field that was not already populated. The logic in Excel looked like this:

=if(f4=””,” “,f4)

That did the trick but it also uncovered one more bug. When you save the file as a CSV out of Excel, Excel treats the double quote different than mySQL. Excel puts two double quotes together indicating that one should be ignored. PhPmyAdmin has an exception character which defaults to a back slash (\). You cannot use double quote as the exception character because then PhPmyAdmin will ignore all instances of the double quote which is disastrous.

So here’s the work around. Save the files as a CSV in Excel. Next, open the CSV in a text editor such as notepad. Then do a global replace of (“”) with (\”). Then upload the CSV and you are done.

It seems simple now, but it took me a day to figure it all out and I did not find a good reference on the net for this issue so I thought I would add it to my blog.

Another thing. The character set of the file should be changed to Latin1 as it defaults to UTF8. This will avoid a lot of problems when using Latin characters such as é, ç, and ô.

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Healthcare in the US and Brazil

Having lived in both Brazil and the US, it truly gives an interesting perspective in the differences between two country’s health systems. Here are some of my observations. I am going to assume that the people reading this article are familiar with the American health care system, so I will just point out the differences.

Test Results. In Brazil, you go to a separate lab to have all of your tests done. Personally, I have had blood work, urine exams, X Rays, and ultra sounds all done in Brazil. The key point is that it is a separate entity. More importantly, they give YOU the test results, and it is up to YOU to get them to the doctor, if you wish. They also put all of your test results on the internet, and you can give your doctor your password to access your records. Over a period of time, you get used to reading your own test results and spotting key indices.

Compare this to the US. Have you ever noticed that when the nurse takes your blood pressure, she writes it down but does not tell you the result? The assumption is that the doctor will interpret the results and inform you if necessary. It’s upside down.

Pharmacy Visits. In Brazil, almost all drugs are available over the counter. The only exception are addictive drugs such as Valium and Oxycontin. It’s happened so many times in the US, that I knew that I had an infection, and I just needed to go to the doctor so he could prescribe some anti biotics. I also have found the pharmacists far more knowledgeable. If you have a certain ailment, you can just go straight to the pharmacy, and the pharmacist will recommend a medication (or give you a shot.)

On top of this, you can get in and out of the pharmacy quickly. Literally in minutes. Compare that the United States. I have no idea what they are doing, but it takes a minimum of 30 minutes to get your medications in the US.

The Doctors. To be honest, I think that the face of medicine in the United States has changed considerably. The doctors are seem so slammed nowadays. They run, and they barely have time to ask the more relevant questions before they have to run off to the next patient. In Brazil, it is much more like the United States when I was younger. Although you still have to wait a long time in the waiting room, the doctors are always patient, and make sure all of your questions are answered. All of my doctors in Brazil have also given me their personal cell phone numbers. To be honest, the Brazil methodology makes me feel more comfortable. I always try to be well prepared when I go to the doctor, but because the American doctor is always so rushed, I worry that we’ll miss something important.

Don’t forget that your health is your own. My wife shops doctors a lot. She wants to get several opinions before determining her course of action.

I have a lot of different thoughts about the root issues, but from a patient’s perspective those are the key differences in health care in the two countries.

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