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Building a New House

I made a lot of mistakes on my first house in South Dakota although I paid a really good price for it. I wanted to share with everyone a few thoughts on other things I learned from building my second house in Myrtle Beach.

Things I did right:

  • Put the kitchen in the middle of the house. This was one of the principal concepts of my house. The kitchen should be one of the biggest rooms in the house, and it should be placed in the center of the house. There is one minus is that because it is in the center it has three entries into it and the big loser is cabinet space. That said, I have plenty of cabinet and counter space for my needs.
  • Another key concept was three porches. It is really enjoyable to go outside during the day and hang and now with wireless internet it is even better. Plus I wired two of the porches for stereo sound. You have to think this through because you also have to figure out where the source of the sound will be. I connected them both to the stereo in the living room. One of the porches is screened and also has a ceiling fan. This porch is great when it is pouring rain outside, also on a hot summer evening. Also the porches have ample electric outlets do you can do virtually whatever you want.
  • Huge living room. I do not like the concept of the formal living room, but wanted to have a very nice living room with a big television/entertainment center as the center piece. I also wanted it to be open to the kitchen so one can watch television /listen to music while doing dishes. Another great thing that I did was to put surround sound speakers into the ceiling of the living room. They sound great and don’t take up any space. Note: surround sound now supports 8 speakers instead of 6 having two side speakers.
  • Master bedroom. I did a lot of good things here. I put the speakers in the ceiling for surround sound. It turned out great. I love surround sound because you don’t have to have the stereo up loud to get the full range of sound. Again, I put the rear speakers in the ceiling. The location of the bedroom is very important. In my case, I put it on the west side of the house so the sun does not enter into the room in the morning. It’s a big plus.
  • The loft. This is essentially a huge bonus room and it turned out perfect. It still has a lot of flexibility to turn it into whatever I want in the future. I am considering making it my office so the kid(s) can’t bother me when I’m working.
  • Gas fireplaces. They are awesome and just the right thing on a cold day without any of the mess of a log fireplace.
  • Solar Tubes. I put four of them in the loft and I wish that I put more. The reason is that they are really bright on a sunny day, and provide tons of light. More than regular light. They are inexpensive and make a nice touch.
  • Good fixtures. Don’t use anything that won’t wear well. No linoleum or formica. For all my counters I used a composite that is reasonably inexpensive but lasts well. My house is now 9 years old but everything has lasted really well unlike my house in South Dakota.
  • 10 foot ceilings. It was one of the first things that I identified and it definitely gives the downstairs a totally different feeling than a regular house because of the ceilings.

Things I wish I did differently.

  • I put the master bedroom too close to the kitchen. When I have visitors, the first place they go is the kitchen and sometimes they wake me up.
  • The cabling for entertainment center downstairs has proven to be tricky.
  • Thermostats – It is a big house and there are four heating/air conditioning systems. The thermostats work great but one is a little too complicated to use and sometimes I am scratching my head
  • Built ins in the closet – I think this is going to be a trend in the future. You can economically put in a built in dresser, mirrors etc all in the closet
  • I wish that I had wired all three porches for sound instead of just two and placed ceiling fans on all three porches.
  • I wired the house for Cat 5 but not in all rooms and not in all the right places. Now that we have wireless it is easier but still you should still think through where you want all the desks to be and PC’s and try to put a Cat 5 connection.
  • One of the big compromises that I made in the house was that I cut 2 feet off the width of the house which impacted the master bedroom and the master bathroom. I really regret pulling those square feet out.
  • I never use the formal dining room, and I wish that I had never put it in. If you are looking to save space, this is a great thing to knock out and perhaps a little more into the breakfast room where everyone ends up eating anyhow. Even now, both Solange and I eat at the bar and use neither dining room tables.
  • My parents room is huge but now well thought out. The reason is that the bed goes up against the windows too tight. I should have done the closets differently and I would have gotten a lot more livable space.
  • Made a little faux pas on the pool table. Make sure that you have plenty of space on all sides. It is playable but I wish that I had put another foot all around the pool table.
  • I think that we are going to see a new trend in the future. Built ins in the closet. Built in cabinets are cheap and then you can make all of the space in the bedroom living space. I wish that I had done that.
  • Outside irrigation. My yard has many dead spots and when it is dry (like now) it does not cover the lawn well. Make sure you check thoroughly their plan and also have some flexibility to change it in about a year.
  • I saved a bunch of money using something called hardy plank on the outside. It looks great and wears great. I only wish that I had put more brick on the front of the house to give it a little more imposing appearance when entering. The back of the house looks great.

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  1. Hello Rob, I just came upon your blog post from 2009, about investing in Brazil. Your article mentioned investment visa. I live in Minnesota, in addition to the investment visa can you tell me if there are any other means to benefit from Brazilian interest rates? Other than the 401k I have with my employer all of my savings is in cash. I’d really like to park it in a safe place but with much greater interest rate return than my stateside bank offers today. Thank you in advance for any info/insight you can provide. Regards, a John P.

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Gateway Badges of Glory

Solange was cleaning up all my old stuff and she found a bunch of my old Gateway badges. I decided to scan them and finally throw them out. Kind of interesting to see everything in a different perspective.

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God, Please Forgive the Religious Right

I have felt the Religious Right in American politics has been wrong for a long time, but I have never been able to fully articulate why. It is the middle of the night on January 11, 2006, and I had the strangest dream about my pastor Greg, and somehow, the thoughts have come together and I am typing as fast as I can to get them down. I hope it works.

Whether it comes to abortion, stem cell research, gays, or creationism in schools, the religious right consistently weights in on these issues from a legal, and legislative perspective. They may be scriptially correct, with their hands on their Bible, but whether they know it or not, hey are doing Christianity much more harm than good.

Each and every one of these issues without exception are deeply divisive issues in our country. Let’s just take one as an example since my argument is the same for each of them. I’ll pick abortion. First off, let me say that I am quite religious, and I personally believe that abortion is killing a live baby, and it is wrong. Although it says it in the bible, I don’t need the bible to tell me that this activity is wrong. If I had children, or someone asked me for advice on this subject, there are few circumstances in which I can envision that I would counsel for abortion. I am opposed to abortion.

Being a male, I will never have the opportunity to experience an abortion, but I would imagine after a woman has an abortion, there is a lot of natural guilt involved. If someone came to me after they had recently abortion, I would not choose to lecture them on scripture and abortion. I would tell them that God loves them and He is a forgiving God.

Here’s my revelation. God has two faces. First and foremost, God is a forgiving God, that is just waiting to forgive our sins in exchange for eternal salvation. This is the Good News of the Christian relgion – The Redemptive Power of Jesus Chirst. Secondly, Jesus was perfection personified. We all fall short of this unattainable glory, and at times, God can be quite judgemental in the manners in which we fall short of his glory.

What the Christian Right has wrong (pun intended) is that our job as Believers is to help other’s find salvation. This should be our #1 goal, and any other goal is entirely secondary to this first goal. The Christian Right is neglecting this goal, in favor of other goals, and in fact, I would argue they are doing a lot of harm to goal #1. To the unchurched, the Christian Right are painting God as a judgemental God, and that sinners in some bizarre way are unworthy of God’s love.

The way to bring more people into the kingdom is by helping the unchurched see God’s forgiving face. Once people see and feel the redemptive power of God’s forgiveness, all the rest happens naturally. But the Christian Right spends all of its time showing God’s judgemental face, by choosing (creating?) divisive issues and disharmony in our country in the name of God. Of course this is wrong, God almost by definition is a uniting force not a dividing one. God wants everyone of His children to feel his forgiveness, and to know that he is a forgiving God.

For all of these reasons and more, I reject the political posturing of the Christian Right, and I ask God to forgive them because they have really lost their way on to what they are trying to accomplish and what God’s purpose is. God in heaven, please forgive the Christian Right. And do it fast.

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  1. Organized religion is the root of all evil. What passes for religion is so far removed from the original teachings of Jesus, Mohummed, and all the other true prophets. God did not decide what to put into the bible, men with an agenda did in the 6th century. Look at the gospels that were included, the earliest of which was written 40 years after the events. Where are the documents of events as they occurred? The disciples were not stupid people. They recognised early on the importance of what they were witnessing. The men with an agenda needed to scare uneducated peasants into Christianity and they used the hocus pocus of divinity to get the job done. It appears that hocus pocus is so deeply woven into the fabric of society that people are still afraid to question “organized religion”. Notice I did not write “faith” which is separate from religion. Freedom of religion leaves us free to have faith.

  2. You should listen to the Whitehorse Inn.

    http://www.whitehorseinn.org.

    And http://www.KFUO.org. In both cases, they agree with you, as I do. The religious right has long since lost sight of the gospel due to their long tradition of “social gospel”, which can be traced back to Thomas A. Kempis’ famous line, “preach the gospel, use words if necessary”.

    Ugh. =(

    Go to the websites, download the programs and find people who believe just as you do. Not all Christians are in “the religious righ”.

  3. I would call it discernment, to each thing there is a season. We, as Christian must discern the season someone is in and meet the the immediate need with the love of God that passes ALL understanding. Only then can we present the source of our love. Its like beating someone on the head with a baseball bat and at the same time telling them God loves you. If we meet the human need, the their curiosity will be spark as to why them!

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One Year of Running!

I was on a cruise off the coast of Brazil in November 2004, and the boat had a treadmill. Although I had never gone on a treadmill before, I gave it a whirl. I started out slow, walking for quite some time, and started running at a slow pace. After less than 2 minutes, my heart was pounding, my lungs were begging for air, and my legs were sore. Little did I know that this excruciating experience was the beginning one of my most enjoyable pasttimes – running.

My apartment in Brazil resides 0n a lake whose circumference is 7500 meters or 4.67 miles. Two days ago, for the first time, I was able to run the entire circumference of the lake without stopping. Previously, I had gone the distance but I had always had a need to slow down and walk. This was the first time, I ran the lake. Afterwards, I walked for another 500 meters, making it a total of 8000 meters of exercise. One of my personal goals is to be able to run a 10K without stopping.

I feel great. I remember weighing myself in October 2004, and I weighed 164 pounds, which is the heaviest I have ever been in my life. At this point, I weigh 142 pounds, and it feels fantastic not carrying around the extra weight. I’ve come a long way. I smoked for a good part of my life. From about 17 years old to I was around 40 when I finally kicked the habit thanks to Xyban/Wellbutrin. I’ve also done my share of recreational drugs, and been on a few drinking binges. I am just amazed how God has given me a body that can recover the abuse I have given it.

I have learned in my year of running, that it is not an easy thing. After a few months, I had shin splints that hurt considerably when I ran. I had to work though that. Next came the stomach cramps. And man, they were bad. But eventually you work through that also. I also tore a tendon in my foot while running, which put me out of action for 3 weeks. But it has been so worth it.

They say that when your body is working hard the brain releases a chemical into your brain that soothes it. Whether you call it the “‘runner’s high”or what, I know that I am addicted to it. I think better, slower to anger, and I just feel happy. I also organize my day when I am running so I am more productive.

My body continues to change as I keep running. One thing about running is that everything needs to be in concert for a good run. It is almost a teamwork between your heart, head, lungs, stomach, and legs. When any one part breaks down, the run breaks down. At this point, I am learning to control my heart better. It is more difficult than it sounds, but once you start running at a good clip, it is very hard to run at a slower pace. But this simple act, allows you to learn how to control your heart rate. I am practicing this with good results.

In Rio, it is very easy to run. The weather is usually always ‘shorts’ weather, and I have a beautiful well-marked lake to run around. In Myrtle Beach, I have modified one of the bedrooms into a work out room. There is a surround sound system, with television mounted high. And of course a weight set and the treadmill. It’s been a great investment.

So this month, I celebrate one year of running. I am 46 years old, and I am in the best shape of my life. I can’t wait to see what next year brings.

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  1. Rob,
    It’s great to hear that you feel so great after taking up what is the simplest of all weight loss mechanisms. I started the same regimen in July 2005 and it lasted for about a week – a trip to Vegas saw to that! I switched gears and completely eliminated sugars / carbohydrates from my diet. I went from 214lbs to a trim 179lbs where I still sit today. My last trip to Vegas didn’t put a dent in the progress I made, just a dent in my wallet because of the Kobe beef and lobster binges – not to mention a new wardrobe. Bottom line: I turned 57 two weeks ago and haven’t felt as good in 20+ years. I’m still swinging the sticks and can do a full turn now, adding 20+ yards to my driver. I don’t play a lot now and my index has ballooned to 9.5 (LOL) – I did have my 2nd a hole-in-one in 2005. Life is good, Ilene is looking like a teenager and we’re grandparents.
    Cheers, Bill.

  2. Rob, I plan to start swimming. The new local gym has a pool. The weight just peeled off the last time I swam (6 months ago). Men’s Health says that swimming 2500 or 3500 meters (numbers ?) a day can hold off the aging process that starts @ 35 well into the 70’s.
    Cool Blog. Later
    Morgan

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The Sum of All Things We Don’t Know

When I think about my religious journey, I have come to the very recent discovery that this is the reason that I seek God. God represents to me all the things that I don’t know. Not just me, but mankind. Even in these years of incredible scientific accomplishment, there are still so many things that we don’t understand.

From the important. Why do us mortal human die? What happens to us after we die? How did we come to exist? What are the origins of the universe? To the more mundane. Can an ant think? Does a little puppy have a soul? To the esoteric. If a tree falls in a forest and no one is there, does it make a sound?

I believe, on one hand, this is the core of religion – embracing and accepting the things that we do not know. Acceptance is key to peace and also to endeavor to further understand things that are within our current realm of understanding. God has made and created an infinitely complex universe in which for us to live. Plus our lives within this world are equally complex. There is only one person that understands everything, and that is God.

But us as human beings, we like to pretend that we know everything. In fact, our society rewards people that know more than others. But we all must come to grips with the fact that we know little about some of the basics of our existence that God has given each and every one of us.

There is a very large distinction between knowing and believing. Knowing is a human thing, and, I believe, that believing is a spiritual thing. For example, there is no need for us to believe that lightening creates electricity, we, as humans, know this basic fact. Believing is for things that we don’t already know.

Which brings me to the Bible. Before I begin, I want to state that I believe that the Bible is a divine book. My belief is not from the Bible itself but one of deduction. If one man or group of people could create a body of literature so powerful that it would be still be read 2000 years from now, and still be the most published and read book in the world, I suggest they do so. Many people have tried to write many books, but none of had as profound impact as the Bible. Our most powerful authors today, John Grisham and Stephen King, for example sell millions and millions of books. These are paltry numbers in God’s eyes.

All that said, the Bible is a book about believing (not knowing). There are many profound truths in this book. Some of them are readily apparent, and many are not. But the Bible is meant to be subject to interpretation, almost by design. I reject those that find factual flaws in the Bible. I believe they are only interpreting the book wrong. I also reject those zealots that want confuse the two different concepts of believing and knowing.

These zealots lead us to some very dangerous places. A good example is gay people. The zealots interpret the bible to say that God does not approve of gay activity, and hence we need to castigate gay people. This is so fundamentally flawed. First off, the zealots BELIEVE this, but they cannot possible know it. Secondly, it is only one group’s interpretation of the bible. I interpret the bible completely differently on this issue. I believe that there are gay people in heaven, and if God can make room for gay people in his kingdom, why can’t we make room for them in ours?

But what riles me most is this ridiculous debate about the origin of man. Both sides are just dead wrong, and it is ludicrous to present either side as fact or science. There is little absolute evidence that man evolved from apes. And there are numerous obvious flaws in the “intelligent design” interpretation from the Bible. My view is neither of these theories should be taught as fact, but perhaps as two opposing unproved theories.

The larger question is “Why do we care so much?” This issue bothers me because it clouds the larger picture. As the human race evolves, we are slowly chipping away at the sum of all things that we don’t know. If you believe that this is God, then that would indicate that we are closer to God now than before because we know more things. I believe God wants us to become closer to him in both ways BELIEVING and KNOWING.

First we need to BELIEVE that we don’t know everything, and that God does. I believe that. I also believe that I will know God better after I die. Yes I believe.

But this article is about KNOWING. No one knows what happens after we die. We can only believe. But there are many things that we are capable of knowing, and I believe that God wants us to know everything about what he has created. God has made man unique in our ability to improve our existence over time. Unlike apes for example. We learn and know more things through SCIENCE. Science is part of God’s plan too. My fear is that when we get into these ridiculous arguments about evolution versus intelligent design, it slows down the scientific process. And this process is fundamental toward increasing the body of things that we know and hence becoming closer to God on a whole new level.

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